Everyday Singapore

We started a blog called Everyday Singapore. We thought it would be a good idea to keep our personal stuff on this blog and start a second blog dedicated to life in Singapore. Of course, some things will cross over, but we'll do our best to keep them separate. Check it out and let me know what you think. If you have any questions about Singapore, send them to me. I'll try to keep a list of questions and answer them as I learn more.

B is for . . .

B is for BATH

B is for BEACH

B is for BUCKET

B is for BALLS

B is for BOOKS

B is for BEDTIME

Things to be praying about

We are running into a little difficulty locating housing in Singapore. The difficulty is twofold. First, the cost. The school Josh will be working for is run as a ministry, and although they do charge a tuition, it is significantly lower than every other international school in Singapore. Not only that, but over half the students are missionary kids and receive a significant discount off the regular tuition price. We are excited to be working for an organization that is focused on serving Christ and loving the students rather than making a profit, but that does translate into a very modest living stipend for us. In years past, the stipend allowance has been just enough to live on. However, in the last year, real estate in Singapore has gone up 70%, which makes the once barely-livable stipend no longer livable. We know that the Lord will provide what is lacking, whether it be through contract work that Josh may be able to find or through some other yet-unseen means. Please pray firstly that God would meet our financial needs and secondly, that a suitable flat (as they call apartments there) would open up in our price range.

The second difficulty we are facing is discrimination. Asia is not like America (DUH!). Landlords can deny a renter for any reason. Last week, we were working with a rental agent who had located us a clean 2-bedroom flat that was a "good deal" (albeit, still $300 more than we are currently paying!). We submitted some information that the agent requested but we received news this morning that the landlord was unwilling to rent to a family with an infant. I talked with our contact at the school and asked if that is a normal practice. He said, "Asia overall has practices that are much different. You see ads in the paper: Wanted female worker – age 30-35 only, Chinese Male security officer needed--under 40 years of age. You are asked you age, religion, husband’s job, etc. Things that would not be legal in the US are the norm here." (I replied that obviously the landlord hadn't seen pictures of Caleb, or they would have known that he is the cutest boy in the world and would have loved to rent to us!) So the third thing that we would ask that you be praying about with us is for a landlord who would be willing to rent to our family, infant and all.

We'll keep you updated. =)

Chicken Satay

Although it isn't exactly a Singaporean dish ("they" aren't sure where it originated, possibly Indonesia), Satay is a popular entree throughout Southeast Asia, Singapore included. There are a million versions of this simple meal but here is a recipe for one of Josh's and my favorite variations. Hope you enjoy!

Because several of the ingredients are unusual items (at least in my kitchen), I recommend doubling or tripling the recipe and freezing the extra prior to cooking. I'll include the freezer directions, just in case.


Chicken Satay
Serves 6

Marinade/Sauce
6 cloves minced garlic
4 Tbs grated ginger (you can usually find it in a jar where the garlic is)
4 Tbs cider vinegar
4 green onions, sliced
1/2 cup cilantro, chopped
1 cup chicken broth
1/2 cup Hoisin sauce (in Asian section of store)
1/2 cup soy sauce
4 Tbs peanut butter (smooth works better)
4 Tbs sesame oil (you can substitute veg oil, but the flavor of sesame is better)
2 Tbs honey
2 tsp crushed red pepper (or more to taste!)

Instructions:
Mix the above together. Divide in two. Half will be used to marinade the chicken. Half will be heated and used as a sauce.

Marinade 6 boneless, skinless breasts (cut into 1-2 inch slices) for at least an hour.
Skewer marinated meat and grill on BBQ. Use extra marinade to baste chicken, but be sure that marinade thoroughly cooked with the meat!

Heat reserved sauce. Serve chicken with sauce over rice. Grilled veggies and fresh tropical fruit round out the meal nicely.

Freezer instructions:
Make marinade/sauce and put half in a freezer bag with chicken. Put the other half in a quart-sized bag. Place both bags inside a 3rd bag and label. Allow meat/sauce to thaw completely before cooking.

The Daddy-Way

There is a definitive difference between the way Mommy feeds Baby and the way Daddy does. Mommy gives little bites, just enough to fill the tiny mouth (even if it takes 30 minutes for Baby to eat 3 Tbs of pureed fruit). Daddy, on the other hand, gives great big bites, replete with airplane noises and choo choos, because the faster the bowl is empty, the better (even if only 1/3 of it actually arrived to its appointed destination!).

I feed Caleb on the days when nutritional intake is of the essence. Josh feeds Caleb on days when time is of the essence.

It is tempting, being a Mommy, to think that the Mommy-way is the right way, but it isn't. Daddy's way is fun and fast and it gives Mommy a much needed break. There is nothing wrong with that.

If you have a husband who does things the Daddy-way, let him, even if it is different than the way you would do things. Let your husband do things his way and only interfere if there is real danger involved. Instead of itemizing everything he's doing "wrong", try standing back and appreciating everything he's doing right (like loving you and your kids). So what if the after-dinner clean-up takes a little longer. So what if there is water on the bathroom floor because of bathtub splash sessions. That's just the Daddy-way! Remember. . . there are plenty of women out there who would love the extra clean-up and water puddles if it meant they had a husband who helped out! Some of those women used to have husbands who helped out, but their critical spirit stifled their husband's willingness. Don't be one of those women!

"A continual dripping on a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike." Prov 27:15

"Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, than in a house shared with a contentious woman." Prov 21:9

Here is a recent Daddy Day photo I though you might enjoy. When I came out into the kitchen and found this face, I couldn't help but smile!

P.S.--Thanks for all your help, Josh. I really do appreciate it when you feed, bathe or change Caleb. Especially on days when I'm needing a break or just a few minutes to myself. You always come to the rescue just in time! It is nice to be on your team.

Sand

We took Caleb to the beach a few weeks ago to play in the sand. He loved it! We burried his whole bottom half in sand, leaving only his toes exposed. He had so much fun digging his way out. He enjoyed splashing his feet in the ocean, too, although Mommy and Daddy both agreed that the water was way too cold for anything more than a toe-dip.

A few new photos

Didn't Josh do a great job picking out my Mother's day gift (a new outfit that actually fit!)?

Some of my cousins called at the last minute to say that they were in town. It was nice to see all five of the (tall) girls together. They are usually busy with all sorts of extracurricular activities and it is a rare treat to see them all in one place.

Caleb (7 months already!) is just about ready to take off crawling. Notice the tongue of determination. He is a crack-up!

The Land of Eternal Summer

After I posted this, I was encourage by notes from many of you saying that you were praying for us. Living as a leaf in God's wind is. . .well, how shall I put this. . . unpredictable. If you had told me in January that we would be living in an apartment right now, I would have laughed at your imagination. But, here we are. If you had told me a month ago that we would be moving out of the apartment in just a few short weeks, I would have laughed at the joke. But, here we are!

After our house sold in only two days, an unheard of thing in the current housing market, we began earnestly seeking God's face about where He was leading us. After making application to a few places, we interviewed and were offered a position in Singapore. For the next two school years, Joshua will be teaching computers at a Christian International School. It is hard to believe, but we will be leaving the US and flying to Singapore the latter part of July! We are excited about this opportunity. God opened the door before us and all obstacles were removed. It has been reassuring to see His hand in our lives.

A little about Singapore. . . I have affectionately dubbed it "The Land of Eternal Summer." The lowest recorded temperature is only 65-degrees (for those of you who need a break from the snow and sleet of Colorado, Washington and Texas, feel free to come visit us next winter). Singapore is an island city-state on the southern tip of Malaysia. It lies very close to the equator and is only a little over 200 square miles. That isn't a very large amount of space in which to squeeze a population of 4.5 million people--thus the high rise apartments and office buildings that dominate the urbanized area of the island. Everyone who has been to Singapore comments on how clean it is. . . so clean that even chewing gum is not allowed in the country (my guess is that although there are no chewing gum stains on the sidewalk, there are 4.8 million people with less-than-fresh breath!) Not only is Singapore one of the cleanest counties in the world, but it is also very serious about obedience to the law (perhaps you remember the incident that made national television a few years ago regarding the caning of an American hoodlum who will now think twice about spray painting BMW's in Singapore) and has one of the lowest crime rates in the world. I'm sure I'll have a lot more to tell you about Singapore once we arrive there, but that's a good start for now.

Although we are excited to GO, we are not excited to LEAVE. It is difficult to say goodbye to friends and family and all things familiar. I cannot emphasize enough how grateful I am to be living in a day and age when technology gaps the miles and even the farthest reaches of the earth are as close as your computer screen. That makes the leaving less difficult.

Please be praying for us as we coordinate our move. Specifically, pray that I would not become bogged down with the details and physical exhaustion of an international move and that I would keep my eyes on the goal of glorifying Christ even in the littlest things. Pray, also, that Josh would be able to utilize these last few months at his current job to shine Christ's light. Pray for an easy adjustment for Caleb (it's a 15 hour time change and a 21 hour flight. . . not exactly a fun prospect with a baby!)

I will be writing more soon, but I wanted to update everyone. This has been an extremely busy couple of weeks and I know the next few will even more hectic.

So much for resolutions

Some of you may have been following my progress on the 2,700,000 in 2007 (see sidebar). Well. . . I have unfortunate news. During our recent move, I dropped my pedometer and broke it. I've tried to continue wearing it, but the battery falling out, clearing out all my accrued steps. So, sadly, this fun experiment is over. I suppose I could take the results from the first three months of the year and multiply them by four to see if my estimated total for the year would have even come close to my original goal, but since I can tell that it won't, I'm going to spare myself the disappointment. =)

I'd like to get another pedometer soon, though. A better one that I can slip into my pocket or something. I plan to do quite a bit of walking in the Land of Eternal Summer.

More information on this to follow. Stay tuned!

Finally!

We are back in action. Our problems with the DSL provider were finally resolved and our service became active this weekend. So, you should be hearing from me again very soon. I have a lot of pictures and updates from the last few weeks. And. . . a few good recipes, too!

Keep checking back. I'm going to try to upload our pictures to this computer (we're using a different hard drive now with different software so I have to figure out how to upload on this new system) some time this afternoon.

Ahhh. . . it's good to be back in cyberspace! =)